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Sex Education in Schools

Back in 1959 when I was in the 6th grade, I sat through a health class where they talked about girls’ menstrual cycles. What they didn’t know was that I had been sexually molested by my father during the previous eight years. I am sure that same scenario is still playing out today in schools all over America.

Age-appropriate sex education in schools that presents valuable information for children and teenagers is not only needed to provide accurate guidance to them about the pitfalls of ill-informed behaviors, but could also provide an avenue to identify child sexual abuse.

In 2004, National Public Radio, the Kaiser Family Foundation, and the Kennedy School of Government conducted a survey on sex education in America.[1] Listed below are some of their findings.

Remember: These are the parents answering the questions, and the information shown below represents the highest/most frequent/most common response to the questions asked.

What do you think is the most important problem facing teens today?

  • Use of alcohol or other illegal drugs
  • Peer pressure/relations with peers

I am going to read you a list of issues that teens today may face. Please let me know how big a problem you think it is for teens in general.

(The parents responded that the problems shown below were a “Major Problem.”)

  • Unwanted pregnancy
  • Getting HIV/AIDS and STDs
  • Poor academic performance
  • Violence
  • Use of alcohol or other illegal drugs

Do you think it is a SIN for unmarried adults to engage in sexual intercourse or not?

A very high majority said “Yes.”

How important do you think it is to have sex education as part of the school curriculum?

A large number said, “Very Important.”

Earlier we asked you a question about abstinence from sexual activity outside of marriage as the expected standard for school aged children. How were you defining the word “abstinence”?

  • A large majority included in their definition of abstinence: sexual intercourse and oral sex
  • Smaller numbers included in their definition of abstinence: sexual intercourse, passionate kissing, and masturbation

I am going to ask you about certain things that might be included in sex education programs in schools. Please tell me whether you think it is an appropriate topic.

A very large majority said the following issues were an “appropriate topic.”

  • The basics of how babies are made, pregnancy, and birth
  • Birth control and methods of preventing pregnancy
  • Waiting to have sexual intercourse until married
  • How to talk with a girlfriend/boyfriend or partner about “how far to go” sexually
  • How to put on a condom
  • How to use and where to get contraceptives
  • How to deal with the emotional issues and consequences of being sexually active
  • How to talk with parents about sex and relationship issues
  • Abortion
  • How to make responsible sexual choices on individual values

What do you think schools should teach about homosexuality?

  • A little over half said, “Teach only what homosexuality is without discussing whether it is wrong or acceptable.”
  • About 1/5 said, “Teach that homosexuality is wrong.”
  • About another 1/5 said, “Schools should not discuss homosexuality at all.”


Find our more information about traumatized children in schools by reading my posts:

Traumatized Children in Schools [TCS]-Part 1, TCS-Part 2, and TCS- Part 3.


[1] Sex Education in America: http://www.npr.org/programs/morning/features/2004/jan/kaiserpoll/publicfinal.pdf


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