We Are Survivors 

This blog is dedicated to the tens of millions of adult survivors of child abuse and neglect who get up every day and try to work and function in a world that seems to not care about us.

Therapy Issues For Survivors – Part 2

This is the second part in a series of discussing effective treatment for adult survivors of child abuse and neglect. This three-stage approach has been shown to be very helpful when working with clients diagnosed with depression, PTSD, and DID.

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Therapy Issues For Survivors – Part 1

Over the years, I have gotten a lot of emails asking for information about effective therapy for adult survivors of child abuse and neglect. I am not a clinician, however, after successfully completing 23 years of therapy to recover from Major Depression, PTSD, and Dissociative Identity Disorder or DID (I integrated about 20 alters), as well as conducting in depth research over the past 30 years, I have a very good grasp of the issues and first-hand knowledge of what it takes to recover. That said, I am writing a series of articles about what I believe are key issues in the treatment of survivors.

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Cycle of Traumatic Reenactment

When I was struggling with one crisis after another in therapy, trying to get my life back on track, there always seemed to be something that would happen to upset me. When that happened, I reverted back to my old ways of coping (isolation and binge eating) until I felt calmer and could function better. It seemed like a never-ending cycle – and it was.

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Family Dynamics of Incest - Part 5

A young girl’s or boy’s need for nurturance and affection is natural. When their parents are incapable of being the loving and mature adults they deserve to help them grow up into a fully functioning adult, problems occur. When incest enters the equation, psychological devastation disrupts their development.[1]

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Family Dynamics of Incest - Part 4

I am now going to talk about two types of mothers in incestuous households: the woman who is a nonparticipant and the other who engages in incest herself.[1] They both are guilty of profound neglect and abuse. To actually commit these acts of omission and commission involves a level of unbelievable denial and lack of any human regard for their children.

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